It's a tough call because I can relate to your husband. Sometimes one person can take only so much and then they need to get away. I'm that way. It's not running, it's getting some down time or needing a distraction.

Ever read the book Exit the Rainmaker? That is a story about how I feel. I never did it physically but, I really would like to. Mentally I am gone at times. Sometimes I just can't take all the pressure of life.

Think about that and your husband.