I'm 50 yrs old and the only kid she has with in 300 mi. So when my dad passed away I thought I could have a relationship with her since we never really had one my dad was a alcoholic and she drank a lot. My dad passed in 2008. I would do a lot of projects around the house for her and cut her grass, shoveled snow. It got to the point that she was taking advantage of me. My dad gave the orders now it was her turn but I couldn't say nothing. When I became ill with depression it was like it was tuned out I could never be sick. Then my marriage went kaput and now have menier's disease. I finally was able tell her it's to much and there was a change in our relationship and when trying to talk about my problems now she doesn't want to here it and raises her voice at me when talking just like I remember as a kid that brought on guilty feelings even though I was just getting a opinion. I must be raining on her parade.