I think you need counseling because you are making such a bid deal out of things she did before you two were even together.

Am I misunderstanding something?I don't get any of this at all,what is the point you are trying to make?Why is it ok that you were in a sexual relationship before,but you have a hard time accepting that she did too?Should she hold that against you?

I also don't understand why you keep talking about all the things you have given her and done for her,what do you mean by it?And why do you keep saying what the other guys didn't do?Are you saying they didn't deserve oral from her and you do?Do you think badly of her because she did that with guys she didn't love?

I just don't get the point you are trying to make.What is the big deal that she gave oral before she met you?

Are you just upset that you weren't her first?