Hey Nutters, congratulations on your decision to go no contact.

Now about that letter you want to send to them...I would seriously think about actually sending the letter. Once received, they will try and do everything they can to reel you back in...even using the "but I've changed, I'm doing so many nice things for you now" tactic. They just want their narcissistic supply...your positive emotions and attention on them. You can write me if you want to talk about this some more.