Hi Friends,
Perhaps regrets make us sink into depression. I wish I had been more patient towards my mom when she was sick. Also, when my dad was terminally ill, once he tried to reach my hand but I could not take his hand, I think I was paralized by fear. These are useless regrets because I cannot go back and fix what I did wrong.
Also, I think that sometimes I blame other people regarding the past because I do not want to think about regrets I had, and my own responsibility. The worst thing would be to have to acknowledge that somehow people that criticize me are right, at least a bit.
What are your biggest regrets?
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