Mine is not going to see my maternal grandmother before she passed away. She raised me & we were incredibly close but after having a hip fracture my Mom basically made the decision that they needed to move into assisted living. She did ok first couple of years but then she became very angry about not being able to go home & continue to live her own life. When I would go see her she became increasingly focused on having me take her home (she didn't know her home & business had been sold) & that was all she would talk to me about. So the last year or so I stopped seeing her-I was also going through a lot during this time-bad marriage coming to a grisly end, working long hours & trying to keep a stable home life for my daughter. I am so sad now that I didn't continue seeing her & it truly is my biggest regret in life.