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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I'm sure you've made progress, but it doesn't sound like you're over her yet. It's why you want to give her the letter. What do you expect will happen? Do you think this will give you closure even if she reacts in a non-positive way? Or could it prolong your issues with her?
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I'm 90% better but my experience with her will always be a big part of my life. I expect to explain to her why I'm dropping it off (vs mail) and that I'm in a much better place because she did terminate me. Almost like a thank you. Regardless of how she acts, it will be closure because this is the last thing I'm waiting for. And, it's hard. It's like a death. It is especially difficult because we have mutual friends and have kids in the same sport. After multiple discussions with my current therapist, this path seemed the most healing for me so it's the one I'm taking.
If she doesn't act right, it will further solidify my feelings that she wasn't a good fit for me and I will rise above.