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Originally Posted by Artchic528
Well, I'm trying to self reflect on here, but can't think of anything I do that is off-putting. It's just the same dull scenario. They message me on the site, we talk a lot, find out we have a lot in common, we switch to texting, we text back and forth a lot, then we meet up and have a date, after which the guy ends it with the death sentence of "Let's do this again" or "I'll text you." and I never hear from him again.
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" talk a lot "
That could be partially a issue... To much talk before.
I agree with Divine ... Do coffee instead of meals. Less wasted time and not as invested.
I'm not wanting to offend ... I do think it's possible a few guys at least are concerned about your living at home. When that topic comes up .. How does that play out ?
" Yes I live at home " I'm working to improve skills to find more fulfilling employment ? Or I needed to come back for a bit to sort some things out help my parents etc etc .
You "DONT" owe anyone an answer of course.
Back when I was dating (think 15 years ago at least) I went on a few dates with guys still living with parents, if I got the slightest idea they were just happy and no ambition to further education or whatnot .. I will admit I seldom went out another date. I was a single mom and I didn't want to support a guy too .
Again not saying it's that reason just a thought.
Please tell me you don't mention drunk disgusting brother lol
Art .... Hang in there , you're smart witty and beautiful you will find someone that will be a great fits!
((( hugs )))