I did all my dating in the 80s, so maybe everything is different now but I met my dates through school, work, or because they were friends of my friends or their boyfriends (double dates). I remember each date fondly in some way (sometimes it was just funny) even if I thought, boy, I will never go out with him again....So I am wondering, are the dates boring because there is nothing to say because you already know so much about them from the online dating website/messaging? So maybe take the type of college course that has a lot of guys, try to get a job at a place that has a lot of guys or volunteer at an event where there are a lot of guys? Also, I have noticed that a lot of guys like the martial arts. Does the idea of taking a karate or jiu jitsu class appeal to you? I met my husband at work. I had asked someone who worked for H to help me accomplish a worthwhile task. He had agreed but when the event started, he was a no show. I called H and complained (the person then came but was late). H helped but gave me lots of advice before the conversation ended. He told me he fell in love with my voice and already knew who I was. Later that week, he bought me a drink and said that he had told the person that was late that he was going to smooth things over with me. He asked me out during the second drink we had together that night.