Hi, Thanks for your answer. I can move on but I don't have good reason right now to break off contact, especially with sister since its very subtle at this point.. I have tried to be honest with them but always afraid to say the truth....I think they know it and obviousy don't want to stop...I don't know maybe now not a good time..but eventually..i don't hate them but I cant really deal with this anymore unless it stops and I don't think it will