I have to say I understand your pain. I had given up on online dating for a long time. I remember being in the same place as you, so I sympathize. A lot of people have made great suggestions, but I think it all comes down to YOU.

I know you want to meet someone, but why not take a break from it for a while? I mean I don't want to offend, because I am a bigger girl too, but why not try and improve your self-esteem some. You say that guys don't approach you in real life, so why not do something about it? Do something to make yourself feel better, what I am saying is focus more on YOU rather than THEM.

Also, I know you're younger, and you say the younger generation only texts, well that's what's wrong. You never hear a voice and you never know what you're walking into. Not establishing some sort of connection before meeting can lead to general awkwardness.

That's just my two cents though, I really think you ought to work on yourself and find some kind of job and opportunity to occupy your time than run around all over the place trying to find a guy. It's nice yes, but it does get tiring. I am not saying give up, just take a step back for a while.

Give yourself a break! God only knows you deserve one.