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Originally Posted by Artchic528
I need some clarification or enlightenment here.
So, the past few months, the same scenario plays out. I meet a guy online, he seems really interested, we go out on a date, rarely two, and then I never hear from them again.
Sure, one can argue that I get free meals out of the deal, but that "free meal deal" feeling can only last so long. Now it just feels like I'm going through the motions due to the fact that the guys never respond after a first or second date. Honestly, I feel like I'm wasting my time. I'm so numb to the dating experience right now.
I feel so disheartened as to what I do that seemingly makes guys not interested once we meet in person.
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I haven't Dated in many years , I did recently have a relationship at work that I had thought was going some where but I totally blew it, or at least I think I did. in any case don't do what I did I texted way to much that was because I closed myself off for some many years and then to have the attention of a great looking smart professional woman and because I was a 54 yr lonely haven't been in a relationship for over 18 yrs guy. I paid for it with my total inexperience . I guess what I am trying to say is this make sure you know what you are looking for and don't give up . also like others have suggested just do the Coffee thing that way you can get allot of awkwardness out of the coffee date . there is allot you can learn from someone in just a few minutes of sitting across from them in easy environment.