Hi Patty,

I know that when I was in the same situation as you, I did have my husband around to talk to about what I was going through, but the horrible trauma with the ID theft & the scarry situation with the home care person let me realize just what a jerk my husband really was...no better than an outsider giving me a look like I was completely crazy when I told him what was going on around me.

It's really the need to talk to someone who understands & really cares for how you are feeling & then be able to give you some mental & emotional relief from the situation you are in......I think that is more the reason why you are really wanting to communicate with him right now. I know that was how I was feeling when going through that. I had a great psychologist that actually was the only help I got with being able to talk about everything & even they couldn't give me the listening & talking I needed.

I hope you can sort everything out in your mind....but it's tough because wanting to share that emotional situation with someone close is going to be there.

You will be able to get through it, but it will be tough,
Debbie