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I notice that some of the people uspet by chat are here a month or less. It is what it is.....its like getting married and thinking you are going to change everything about the other person once you do. If chat is often upsetting to a person than that is probably not a good place for that person to be.

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Hey Joe,

That's the odd thing, it wasn't like this when I began coming here are few weeks ago. It's only been in the last week or so that this strange attitude has emerged.

And as for not knowing the rules about red, when I have been in chat and a new person use the red font, they have been asked nicely and respectfully to please choose another color and why. And thank you for adding caps to the list as it slipped my mind.

In the incident that I spoke of a new person started with the red font and was asked very nicely to please change their font and she did. I was a member that's been here six months minimum that decided it would be "fun" to do since it bothered people in the room.