Such a quick reply! I'm not saying that your weight is a problem necessarily. When you say you are a bigger girl, I'm not sure exactly what you mean. I am just saying that if you put up pictures that hide your weight and make you look much thinner, it could take them by surprise. Perhaps if they had known what your size was, they wouldn't have said yes to the date.

It's great that you have such a positive self-image. I wish I had that. However, not everyone has the same view as you and may not be physically attracted to that. By putting up a picture that shows your full body, you'll know that those who arrange to go on dates with you are aware that you are bigger, and have no problem with it! It might help to eliminate some potentially fruitless dates. Just a thought.