??? I didn't say that at all. I said THEY ARE DISCOVERING SOMETHING ABOUT YOU that they didn't know PRIOR TO THE DATE and it is off-putting to them.

So, it is either your pictures don't accurately reflect your appearance and/or weight OR

Your circumstances (employment, transportation, living situation) are not to their liking. Are you telling them you aren't employed full time, don't drive and live with your parents prior to meeting?

Edit - I see your pictures. They are fine, unless you're describing yourself as thin or athletic the men shouldn't be surprised if you're a little "fluffy"