i remember my T bringing it up first. we discussed my sexual history. some of my trauma is from sexual abuse. it is easier to talk about with my T now. oh, he's male by the way, and im female. he noted that sexuality seems to freak me out. i said yes. he said maybe im not ready to talk about it yet. i think in that regard he meant my sexuality in the present moment. i think it takes a good rapport and lots of trust to broach this subject