Hi,

Thanks for reading.

I have been with my (gay) male partner for around 5 years and he has a very unusual issue. He continually talks about rape, incest and other horrible things almost constantly throughout the day.

I have been keeping a record for today only to get an accurate count - it's around 5pm and he has made over 50 comments today alone so far.

I have explained how much I hate it, I ask him to stop or be quiet every time he says these horrid things but he never stops or reduces what he is saying. I've also tried totally ignoring it but it makes no difference.

It's usually a very short sentence at a time.

Things like 'your daddy raped you' or 'gorgeous young virgin son.. daddy raped you'.

Please, if you have any ideas about what I can do to try and stop this, please let me know.

It's so unfair for me to have to listen to this day in, day out nearly every hour I am with him.

Many thanks