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Originally Posted by Hateful94
I actually think it's the "behind my back" part of it that bothered me the most. Like... we're supposed to be friends but you can't tell me you're seeing my guy? Proves that she knew she was wrong. And when she found out that I found out (I raged to a mutual friend), what did she do? Apologize. If she didn't know she was wrong she wouldn't have apologized.
I can't really see why you think he's more to blame over her. Can you explain some more?
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I'm not sure who initiated that step to meet alone, your friend or the guy, but in either case, the guy has made a free choice. Your friend was wrong, but also the guy was wrong. Neither should've accepted to meet behind your back, not that fast. Sure your friend has the right to love and be loved, as you have that right, but there are legitimate means. I would be pissed off if I introduced two people I know and discovered the next day that they are meeting behind my back, even if we are all platonic friends. It doesn't sound right. For your BF, as I said, if you aren't happy with him because he is not around all the time, set yourself free. It's better for both of you.