It really is OK to be talking to more than one guy.

I'm not sure why society has evolved to the point where women are only supposed to talk to one guy?

It seems to me that it used to be that women were free to talk to as many guys as the wished...and then if a women wanted to, she would make a commitment to one guy, at which point the interest in other guys would stop.

But anymore, it seems like women are only supposed to talk to one guy, and the commitment starts at "hello".

At least this is how it seems to me anyway, and I've been chastised by "friends" for getting to know more than one guy at a time.

In my mind, I can have as many friends as I want, and there is no commitment to someone until we have that commitment conversation.

Otherwise, you're just making a lot of assumptions.