people have different tastes. a good friend of mine even though he is 5'10" and weights about 160 Lbs he loves bigger woman. myself I am attracted to all sorts of woman but usually a little fit once I start talking to woman ( and for me it is very hard to do) it goes by interests I used to be security and drive exotic dancers and escorts so I have met all sorts of woman a fair amount of them were allot different because they had to put on an act and adjust to every situation differently. so the number one thing is to be honest with your self. and take lots and lots of pictures then chose the best out of them.

be straight forward as to what you want. another acquaintance of mine comes straight out and says he just wants sex and maybe it will turn into sex buddies. Myself I doubt that I could do that but I do credit him for being totally honest. just remember it is about you not them. for me it is tough to be that way .