I hear ya, Veda. We hate haircuts too for the same reason. We bought haircutting scissors and often do it ourselves... or at least tidy it up, since we are in a professional job and have to look halfway decent. But it gets out of control.
You know you are right it isn't fair. But you are human.You are every bit as human as every one else on this planet, even those who don't feel like it at all. This is what happens to normal human beings when they experience that crap when they are just trying to grow up.
Do yoou know that in the first six years of life little human beings are learning 'how to human'? When you get neglect and abandonment and abuse after abuse stuff in there in really mucks up the 'how to human' planning stages. You are totally human dude. its just that someone gave you really wonky plans for how to do it. : \

re the haircut thing... I am glad no one got hurt, including you.