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Originally Posted by Mr. Stranger
OK, now everyone is using the BF cheating thing as an excuse to invalidate her feelings, and I don't agree with that. I didn't say it was right, but what they did wasn't right either. The fact is that she introduced two people she knew, and almost immediately began to meet alone without involving her. The BF thing is irrelevant to the story here. We can argue what a free country means, but people who go around me although they met through me doesn't represent freedom in its correct way. There is a difference between what you can do, and what you should do. If you can do something, it doesn't mean you should do it. Maybe it doesn't affect you that people who met through you to meet alone in less than 2 weeks, but it does for me, unless my goal of introducing them was for them to meet alone.
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Thank you so so much for having my back on this. I know it wasn't right to do that to my bf but it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that my friend betrayed me in an even worse way.
Yes, you get my feelings exactly. She met with him without involving me in the slightest, as if I were nothing but a stepping ladder for her to get to him. I knew him for a full week by the time I introduced them so it's not like I just met him. By that time, he was very clearly MY friend (with benefits). The worst part is, I didn't even want to introduce them! I was forced to.
But hey. You lose some you gain some. Hopefully true friends are in my future. Thank you again.