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Originally Posted by Hateful94
Thank you so so much for having my back on this. I know it wasn't right to do that to my bf but it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that my friend betrayed me in an even worse way.
Yes, you get my feelings exactly. She met with him without involving me in the slightest, as if I were nothing but a stepping ladder for her to get to him. I knew him for a full week by the time I introduced them so it's not like I just met him. By that time, he was very clearly MY friend (with benefits). The worst part is, I didn't even want to introduce them! I was forced to.
But hey. You lose some you gain some. Hopefully true friends are in my future. Thank you again.
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A clarification. I just don't agree on people going around me if they met through me so fast. I'm not sure, though, if calling the guy "your" friend is legitimate as if you own him. In any case, I would ditch them both. Find people who appreciate and value you. I prefer to be alone than to be around people who have no consideration whatsoever. I don't sign up for that game. Also, me validating your feelings and saying that your BF story is irrelevant don't mean to give you a pass on that issue. You have to do something about it, too. Sorry to be blunt in this post, but I don't want to be misunderstood. I hope these responses have opened your eyes on what's right and what's wrong. Good luck