So what happened was that today my mom wanted to go to the gym but I wasn't feeling good so I opted out going, she kept trying to pester me to go but I still declined as I wanted to go nowhere, she then tried to guilt me by saying " well you kinda hope that your family members would support you in your weight loss" as if I was the only way she could lose weight, she also tried to lie to my uncle by saying she could only go cause I had free passes due to working there, when we all knew that I had bought a membership for her. I did get mad at her and tell I didn't care if she lost the weight or not and she could go by herself, which made her mad and she stormed off.
How do you handle something like this? I'm not the most emotional stable person and will admit that but I don't like it when people think they can do this. She's also on a kick where she's calling everyone else selfish when she herself said she wouldn't buy food for the house cause other people where eating to much of it.