Quote:
Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
Why should I not be open with my sexual fantasies if I want to be in a committed relationship with someone who shares the same sexual interests?
I don't talk about sexual fantasies on the first date. Most of the time I don't say anything at all until I get to know them. These guys aren't one night stands, they've been people I'd date for a couple weeks and then after we have sex they tell me "they've got a lot going on right now and they're not ready for that kind of commitment."
I just don't get why they back out after sex. Why lead me on?
|
They backed out because they weren't interested in dating you, just sex and then move on. You can't really say you get to know them, but how is it possible? In few weeks? They maybe says they wanted a relationship but their actions of jumping into bed quickly, speak otherwise
If you want a relationship, i highly recommend that you don't sleep with people after just few weeks but establish close relationship first.
Date them for couple of months. If they insist on jumping into bed quickly then here is your sign that they aren't serious about you. Men and women who really are into you would want to get to know you very well and build a relationship first.
You'll find someone. You are intelligent and sweet and cute, just don't sell yourself short