I'm on a dating site. I'm what's considered bbw. I have a couple full body pics up. It's just fair to show them what I look like. I still get messages. I'm actually seeing someone right now. We talk on the phone a lot and have went out on one date. I really like him. He's successful, intelligent, kind.

I'm not working right now bc of my back and my bp. I've been honest with him about it. He likes me bc of my intelligence, kindness and honesty. We've been talking for about 3 weeks. We texted at first, but I think it's better to talk to get a feel for someone.

Imo, you should put up a couple full body pics and keep the face pics up too. Be completely honest from the get go. I'm a feminist too but not all men like women with extra weight on them. You'll find men that do tho. Or are more interested in other traits. But they need to know what you look like.

Out of curiosity, why aren't you working full time or going to college? Once I get some things settled I plan to go back to college. Have to work on my back issues too. But I have plans on how to get my back stronger.

I just think it's attractive to always be learning and growing. I wasn't really worried about finding someone. Then this man came around. But it's still the beginning. Still might not work out. But I try and always focus on my life, my son, my family, my goals and learning and growing. Having a man is just a bonus.