Wisewoman,

Wow. You certainly have a lot on your plate. Don't feel you can't come here and talk to us anytime though, that's what we are here for after all.

Try and take things one day, one hour, one minute if necessary, at a time. I know thats age old advice and may seem cheesy but when we only have to concentrate on getting through the next few min rather than the next few days, I find it helpful.

I hope you feel better really soon.