Also, most men either want children or already have children. At your age, you may find men who have kids or don't want kids anymore. If you don't want kids, you are limited to men who don't want/don't have kids.

If I hadn't wanted kids, my h wouldn't have married me. He wanted them. So did I.

I loved being a baby-making machine. I was nursing and always dressed up. He used to call me 'meals on heels'! I even had designer maternity clothes. I was really cute when pregnant. Looked like I swallowed a huge beach ball, otherwise normal.

And what did the guys I dated and married do for me? They took me places and paid, they shared experiences with me, they listened and cared, they bought me gifts, took me on trips, brought me into their lives introducing me to their family and friends.

And when dating, what did I do for them? I gave them companionship, listened and cared, gave them gifts, meals. Brought them into my life, etc...