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Old Jan 22, 2017, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Also, most men either want children or already have children. At your age, you may find men who have kids or don't want kids anymore. If you don't want kids, you are limited to men who don't want/don't have kids.

If I hadn't wanted kids, my h wouldn't have married me. He wanted them. So did I.

I loved being a baby-making machine. I was nursing and always dressed up. He used to call me 'meals on heels'!
There are people who don't want children. Some have exciting careers traveling around the world etc a colleague of mine is in his 30s and they dont plan on having children. My daughter has a good friend who is married and they don't want kids. My husbands cousin is married and they don't plan on having kids. It's a choice. But they are all busy with other things.

You have to have something else that you devote your life to.
Thanks for this!
TishaBuv