We split household tasks depends who is busier that week. My husband had s very tough week and I did must chores. Next week he has lighter schedule so he'll do must things around the house.

I can't imagine not working much (not temporary but in general) and not go to school AND refuse to help with anything. That's beyond ridiculous. No self respecting men or women would put up with this. I know I'd kick a man out if he didn't work and didn't help out. Men would do the same