If I'm making coffee for myself, I'll bring a cup for him, too, even making it with creamer how he likes it. It's things like that. And he'll do that for me, too.

Artchic, think about your expectations. What do you think your daily life would be like with a man in a committed relationship? He's going to work, supporting you, coming home, and you are going to be there, having hardly worked, and tell him to make his own dinner and do his own laundry, etc? How is that going to work?