I prefer equality and taking turns. We both work and both do chores. But I believe if one partner works much more, the other one would have to help more at home.

I agree about not catering to a man, I am not a maid either.
But why would he be expected catering to her?

He'd be expected to provide/cater by paying all bills and being sole provider, yet a woman would be free of any responsibilities? What would she be doing?

That's bizarre and no one would agree to it