I couldn't tell you how you know if someone is addicted to porn...all I know is I don't like my hubby using it, it was at the stage where our sex life was non existant because he was watching all sorts on line, I found out one day when he was accusing me of all sorts. I think it distracts men from reality, wanting to look at these beautiful women with perfect bodies, younger girls (not children) and too far into a fantasy world to appreciate real flesh and intimacy.....this is my problem, but it made ME feel insecure, unattractive and put me off having sex with him. The thing is, he knew I hated it and every time I threw magazines away he would find some other way of looking at it.
Sorry, I've rambled a bit, I just have a huge problem with porn.

Jinny xx