i know that throughout our marriage there have been times he has checked out porn. sometimes it was more excessive than others. but just recently our sex life has become practically non existant, he and i talked about it and said he likes it because it is easier than coming to me. he agreed to not go to any porn sites when i told him how i felt, so now i find out instead of going to porn sites he does seemingly innocent serches on the computer. He was serching using different disney characters names like ariel or belle even phocohontas but what comes up on the serch engines is pretty graphic and not from disney.

I feel like he has found himself a loop hole in his promise , he is not actually going to porn sites but he is still looking at the pics on the search page

Linda