I don't get why some people get annoyed when me or anyone else does something and other people get annoyed when it obviously does not affect their routine. Like when I was at college, I always hung out in the main college center where people always gathered to socialize, eat, and even do some homework. Lots of people did that. And I did it a lot as well. But for some reason, there were some people who would ask why I like to hang out there a lot, even though it did not affect their routine. And they appeared annoyed too.
Now, more recently, I may go meet someone and usually I meet them at the college I graduated from since it is convenient. I've had other people ask why I would do that. It is not like I am there long, I always get there a little early since I use public transit and you just never know what may happen, but I am never too early. But there are still people who make it seem like they find it weird or annoying that I do that, even though they don't even go there and it had no affect on their routine. There are several other cases but. These were a couple examples. Anyone get why people do this? I find it annoying. I almost want to say it doesn't affect them so stop acting so annoyed by it. Wish people would mind thei business and let me do what I want or need to do. Anyone get this? How do you deal with it? Just curious.
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