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Misssy2 · Jan 23, 2017, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by aarya10

Thank you, guys. I know she's no good for me, but it's going to be really hard to drop her right now because of how close we are, her mental state and how we've got several projects to complete together (which I bet, she's going to make me do).

She was once angry at her childhood best friend for some silly reason, and decided it would be right to tell me about her childhood bf's trauma. And the only reason she did it was to compare it with her own issues and rant about how she's had it worse than her best friend. I don't know why I allowed her to do that, actually. It was wrong of me. I should have spoken up then itself. I don't know why I'm so afraid of people and speaking up.

You guys are right, it's time to tell her how I feel. I can't handle this anymore. But I also know she's going to move on really quickly and hurt someone else, and I don't want that to happen. Ahh.

You can't control who else she hurts. You can only control how much you have to say about how she is hurting you. Its just normal human behavior to be offended when someone is offending you. She may not realize what she is doing to you, there are ways you can tell her without ending the friendship.

If she then choses to end the friendship because she doesn't like what she hears...than that is her problem to deal with...you have been a good friend and don't deserve to be treated like she is treating you.

Please stand up for your feelings.