.... and yes, Narcissist can be very difficult and crazy-making. They will flatter you, love those great qualities about your and keep you around as long as their own ego is satisfied but any moment you have your own problems or questions their behavior - it's ICE and Stone. They will absolutely refuse to apologize or own their own behavior. All their problems are everyone else's fault.

I've been the victim of the cold treatment as well; when this happens, be extra vigilant to care for yourself.