@Laurie; I look at it this way..I didn't bully anyone in school. I kept to myself and just wanted to be left alone. I was approached years ago while home on vacation by a girl who "hated" me for no reason. I barely knew her even in school and she had to tell me who she was. HHiiIIIII!! Howw ArrRREE YoooUUUU???? Oh my GAHHHHD! How long has it BEEEEEEENNN???? When she told me her name my response was "Look, you hated me all through school and I am comfortable with that now so lets just can the crap, B****. Then, naturally, the hand went to the chest and she gasped in "shock" etc, etc, etc. I was happy about it...