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Old Jan 23, 2017, 08:23 PM
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Well, I don't know if this is going to happen or not. He gave me his number because he wanted to text, which is fine. I don't want to text a whole lot but I don't know a whole lot about him, so I do want to know some basic things...well, he starts asking me how old I am, and I'm confused because it's right there on my profile...so I asked, I thought it was playful, "isn't it on my profile?" and he didn't understand my playfulness and said I was in a bad mood (kinda weird because we just met).

Then, he made a kind of sexual comment, and I responded, wow, you went there fast...when I was younger, I probably wouldn't mind getting into a sort of sexting thing or being super flirtatious, but I really don't know anything about this guy, and I'm certainly not feeling that far along in our flirtation...anyways, he got all defensive when I said he went there fast and said something like you can judge me but that's on you...etc...

I'm just getting the sense of someone who is either extremely sensitive or socially awkward or emotionally immature...red flags...I think I might have to cut this one off. I think he's just in it for the sex...And he clearly thinks of me as older, which I don't like.

Sigh...now I feel super depressed.

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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien

Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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