I didn't particularly like most of those people back then, so I wouldn't go now. From the few I've bumped into, I was told the first one was just a bunch of the popular kids getting together and hanging out. None of my friends went. The second one was just a casual night at a pub, and again, very few people went.

IME people have an inability to understand those who don't take the expected road in life, and I really have no desire to be judged by people who are strangers to me now. I went to school with them....but that was it. None of my activities were through school (and yes I had a ton of them). So school was pretty much just...school...not much socialization.