Thank you. I often wonder that - I was committed it's clear he wasnt really though he would tell me he had never felt love like this before and now how frightened he is to lose me. Well I guess he should have thought of that!!! My priority now is me and my emotional health. I have a bad habit of feeling sorry amd trying to fix but he caused this so needs to feel the cosequences. Ironically before the car accident I was planning on separating - think it all became too much after hence the indecision x