I have a casual friend who offers favors, mostly rides or just money in general to others, when she really doesn't want to and gets annoyed about it. I e always wondered why some people, including her, do that. Like, if you don't like giving people offers, then don't do it. I told her that and she agreed but she still continues. I just don't know why people make offers when they are secretly not wanting to do it.

I know I've talked about people offering favors before, but I don't think I've asked why some people offer favors and then get annoyed afterwards. It should be either you are okay with offering favors, as long as it is not too often in a short period of time, or not at all. That is how I am. I only offer favors a little bit in order to prevent being used, and only when I actually want to. I never offer favors when I don't want to. I feel like some people, including my friend, makes themselves miserable by offering favors they secretly do not want to do. Anyone know why this is? Should I tell her to stop offering again if she doesn't want to? Just curious.