Hi Toni,
Doctors are very much overworked and overstretched in the Uk. They usually allocate patients to the doctor most suited to deal with the case.
They probably done you a favour by making you see a male doctor as he is more likely to understand your problems.
Perhaps you're too apprehensive about your behaviour? In any case, if you need a doctor urgently you can ask for the earliest available date -with any other doctor.