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Originally Posted by Mapper
He doesn't know I know or do anything. I keep it all to myself, so why would he be miserable about me checking up on him? He doesn't know I know about all his lies. As far as he's concerned he thinks he's been giving me great excuses which I believe. He doesn't know I check his stuff to catch him in all these lies....or should I say "alternate facts"! If he'd stop lying to me about being at work, or going to work, or paying a bill then I wouldn't have to check and see if it's true. I almost feel like I need to have his manager sign a note that he brings home to let me know he actually was at work that day!
And no, he isn't miserable. Keeps telling me how much he loves me and how I'm the best thing to happen to him and how I've calmed him down so much.
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You said many times how badly he treats you. Happy people treat their spouses well.
Also people who truly love their spouses don't belittle and berate and put down their partners the way he does according to you.
They also don't take advantage of their spouses financially. It's not love
Also happy people don't spend days laying around, sleeping in the middle of the day, don't leave the house for days, drink and get high daily. You describe miserable person perhaps struggling with depression and addictions.