So I've been seeing this girl for awhile now and I've noticed that a lot of our relationship has a lot negatives in it. When my girl and I are together I I don't think about my college stress, work stress, family stress, etc... I just think about her and I. But with her she constantly is venting about her family drama, how sick of college she is, her ****** roommate, her financial situation. I try to be comforting and will listen all the time. But I don't feel like a boyfriend. I feel more like a therapist or mentor to her and I don't like it.

I love this girl greatly, but I'm so tired about hearing nothing but the negatives in her life. I've asked her not to constantly talk about her problems. But she ends up saying that she has nothing to say because I told her not to talk about her worries. She seems to think that when I ask her not to vent 24/7 is me saying I don't want her to vent at all.

She's been dealt a crap hand in life. She was bullied severely in high school which she ended up in a mental hospital for that. She has bipolar 2, depression, OCD, and anxiety. Her sister is a narcissist and her brother is a juvenile delinquent. So her parents put them before her. They will even hang up on her to talk to them. She doesn't drive so she has to rely on others to get her places. She doesn't work because of her disability. Finally she has a horrid roommate who needs to have his face rearranged.

I have thought about ending our relationship, but I cannot deny myself the feelings I have for her when I'm with her and thinking of her. Im also scarred for her if I did end it. I'm also unsure whether I'm mentally capable of continuing a relationship with her.