If someone has a problematic fetish, for instance, is there any way to reduce their reliance on it for arousal? Basically I desperately just want to have the same amount of arousal to normal sex as to my fetish. I've read a lot of conflicting things say that CBT for fetishism doesn't really work in the long term and that there is no way to remove a fetish per se. The only thing that seems to work is by lowering your sex drive with antidepressants or antiandrogens but then your sex drive would decrease for things not related to your fetish as well. I just feel like my brain is somehow wired wrong and always will be and that I'm in some super small minority of men that only get turned on by a specific thing. It distresses me a lot because there is something fundamentally wrong with my sexuality.
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