((((HUGS&TEARS))))
I came across this article the other day...about the process of trying to repair a marriage after infidelity...I hope it offers some touchstone for you to figure out if both of you realistically may or may not be able to move forward together
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...r-betrayed-you

There are lots of articles in this section that I think you might find helpful as well..
I really hope that whatever happens,
you are not alone!

~Scarlett