So we talked, I told her that I feel more like a therapist than her boyfriend. I went on to tell her we need to work on our relationship.

Her response was that I'm not her therapist, I'm her boyfriend. Then she said that she will try to change her habits.

I'm not the type of person to just give up easily on a relationship when the first problem comes around. So I'll see how this spans out.

I'm trying to stop my mind from over thinking our relationship and causing me to jump the gun. But I can definitely look back and understand why my mind was sending so many intrusive, dark thoughts about us.

P.S.
We do have stuff in common; we both love the outdoors, we both like to make stuff, we love animals, we are brutally honest, we are like minded, we're both introverted, etc... so we do have stuff in common. It's just that her negativity has obscured it.