hard to say whether it would scare him off or not. I wish I could say. Thing is, I'm sure you know there's really no standard, it depends on the people involved whether it's too soon or not. Whether or not hes a person that would go for that or not is yet to be found out, and there's not enough to go on here but isn't that the nature of meeting new people and dating?

So essentially you're left with your gut. If it's something that you want to do and feel comfortable doing it, go for it, I'm sure you already know you're taking a risk by doing so but isn't waiting it out possibly taking a risk anyway? Maybe he does want you to initiate?